Power Law in Dating

I believe most of us heard friends around saying “Date multiple girls/guys simultaneously, distribute the risk, so to find the Mr or Miss Right”. Make it a portfolio, just like your investment brokers usually say. However, it maybe wrong.

0.01% of Google is probably worth a lot, lot more (35 million dollars) than 100% of a startup that you’ll start. And most startups fail, in which case you’ll own 100% of nothing.

Said Peter Thiel in the book “Zero to One”. Our focus is to find the right girl, rather than seeing a pool of girls and hope the right one is in there.

Forget The Goal & Be Happy

Recently I have come across two interesting articles: Yes, You Can Be Happy While Pushing Yourself to Success, and Forget Setting Goals. Focus on This Instead. It says, we should focus on the system (the process) rather than the goal. Once you have the plan layout and the habit built, forget about the goal and just follow the plan, focus on the daily habit.